I LEFT MY HEART…….IN SINGAPORE!

 

by Jeremy Josephs, Freelance Writer and Journalist, josephs@crit.univ-montp2.fr, www.jeremyjosephs.com


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Most of us know that Tony Bennett left his heart in San Francisco. But did you know that restaurateur Tai Lian Lee left his in Singapore? For despite living the best part of three decades in Paris - considered by many to be the world’s most beautiful city - the 46 year old Singaporean entrepreneur still yearns for the narrow alleyways of Geland(?) and the backstreets of Tamponi(?) where he spent his formative years.

Not that Lee was sorry to have set sail from Singapore. But that was back in 1965 when he was just 19 years old. And in any event when he abandoned Asia for Europe he did so with the most noble of aspirations. With his father unable to fulfill his role as family breadwinner after a nasty road traffic accident which almost cost him his life, Lee immediately downed tools and headed for Holland. Quite literally, in fact, because he happened to be working as a carpenter’s apprentice at the time.

"My father’s bike was completely crushed under the wheels of a lorry", Lee recalls. "Having broken his legs and hip, we were advised that it was going to be several years before he could work again. Not surprisingly, my mother was really worried. As the oldest son I naturally wanted to help. I had heard from neighbours that Holland was meant to be a good place to find work and earn money. So I left for Amsterdam, where I went into catering. It was the first time I had left Singapore. But if I am honest with myself I was really quite happy to be starting something new - it seemed like a big adventure at the time.

Catering is one way of putting it. Chief dish and bottle washer was probably nearer the mark. Working his way around the Chinese restaurants of Amsterdam, Lee soon found himself thrown in at the deep end, being called upon to make rice and other dishes as and when other employees failed to turn up or took time off on sick leave. And before you could say satay or popy-en(?) he had reinvented himself as a cook, and a sought-after cook at that. Mailing money orders home without fail every month, Lee made up his mind early on that there would only ever be one way to increase his own earning potential: to work for himself rather than appearing on someone else’s payroll. But in the event it would take him eighteen years of sweating over other peoples’ hot stoves before being able to realize his ambition. And when, finally, in 1986, he did open his own premises they would be in the French capital rather than the Dutch.

"Paris is the gastronomic capital of the world", Lee admits, "and so it was only natural that it would take the French some time to acquire a taste for our cuisine."

Eleven years down the line and if you want a table at Lee’s Restaurant Singapour, situated in the city’s chic 17th arrondissement (and just a stone’s throw from the Champs Elysées) then you had better book up in advance. The only Singaporean restaurant in Paris, Lee’s dishes are particularly well-received by the French - not generally known for the bandying about of compliments when it comes to the entirely serious business of gastronomy - who now form the backbone of his clientele. And there is more good news: a mere 75 francs (approx $10 US) will buy you a set four course meal consisting of nems, Satay Singapore or Rendang Curry or Sambal with Singapore Sauce, followed by banana, apple or pineapple caramel (parcel-pinkel?) for dessert. All of this to be washed down by imported Singapore Tiger Beer - of course.

Lee is understandably proud of what he has achieved - although he is quick to point out that its been very much a family affair from the outset - with his wife acting as cashier and teenage sons Min See and Min Lui helping out whenever they can during time off from school. In fact Mrs. Lee was born and brought up in the Malaysian capital, Kuala Lumpur, although she met her husband in Paris. A graduate of the Nanyang Academy in Singapore, where she studied Fine Art, her works of Chinese lakes, Malay oil paintings and water-colours adorn the walls of the restaurant and provide a rich and colourfully authentic atmosphere of the Orient which goes down a treat with the locals. Mrs. Lee has even managed to smuggle one or two Malay dishes onto the menu, although her husband makes a point of cutting down on the amount of chili used in order to make it more acceptable to French stomachs, more used to digesting creams and cheeses than sauces and spice.

Although the Lees’ romance blossomed in Paris, they married in Singapore, where they had a traditional Chinese wedding. Mr. Lee still makes a point of returning home once every three years, during which time he shuts up shop and flies back to visit his aging parents for a period of one month. His father, who happily effected a full recovery (although complications saw to it that he remained hospitalized for no less than 4 years) has himself made the pilgrimage to Paris on more than one occasion.

"We always fly out on Singapore Airlines," the good Mr. Lee notes with more than a hint of national pride. "I have always found that they arrive on time and serve you well."

So have their many years in France ensured that slowly but surely the Lees have become French in everything but name? Hardly.

"We still lead a Chinese way of life over here", Mr. Lee concludes. "I still have my own flat in Singapore at a place called Par-Simbok(?) - although its rented out at the moment. I will leave France to retire there one day. I miss my country a lot - I think about it all the time. My family and friends have remained in Singapore too. I might well have spent the best part of a quarter of century in France. But I can tell you where my heart lays - in Singapore. It always will. Because if there’s one thing in life of which I am sure, its that there really is no place like home."

 

Restaurant Singapour

4, Rue de la Félicité

Paris 75017

Telephone: + 33 (0) 142 27 71 15

Métro: Malesherbes

 


The main Web site of freelance writer Jeremy Josephs is at www.jeremyjosephs.com Please check there if you might be interested in engaging him as a writer.

Many of his articles are available online. Please check the sitemap for a complete list.